Be dumped? or exo a tooth?

Wisdom extractions and break-ups...
They are two different life experiences that we wish to never go through, as "pain" is involved.

During the extraction, it's very numb, you don't fee much (supposedly, and I can manage it! :p ). But at the same time you know there are a lot going on and get scared of the after effects. Then comes the predicted excruciating pain................... Also there is a big space where the tooth used to be, and it feels empty. You think there is something there, but not anymore.

But as time goes by, the pain gets less and less, and you get used to having the empty space. Before you know it, you become pretty ignorant.. then become perfectly fine... as if nothing has happened.

Break ups are the same. Actually, it's worse in my thought. At least there are pain killers available for wisdoms exos. Like people say time will heal everything, it is the best medicine. All the pain will go away as time goes by... all the emotions will become dull, and one day it will all disappear. With time, you will be only left with scars of love, happiness, which were followed by the painful breakups.

Don't worry about those who are backstabbing yuo, it's just one of the ways to get over their sadness. People deal with sadness in all different ways. Afterall you cannot expect someone to lose such a special girl like you :) Don't worry about what others will think of you, if they start believeing the rumours, then are not worthy of your friends. Don't be sad and angry and waste your time thinking about them. Let time do the job, you are happy with the new life now, so stick to it. Last 5 years of knowing you has made me realise how precious our friendship is, and I'm so glad to be y our friend. Don't associate with those with thin ears - if they believe you this time, they will not next time. Sonner or later they will become distant... Dn't feel so bad, I will "curse" them for you so they will lose their teeth before they turn 50!! Count on me and I will be there for you

*This entry is dedicated to my dear friend...*